2026 Intentions: What I’m Inviting In (and What I’m Finally Letting Go)

Happy New Year, everybody!

January is a wonderful time to reflect and set intentions, but for me, 2026 didn’t arrive with a reset button. Life is still full, the days are still busy, and the work continues. But what has changed is my clarity. I know what I want to invite in this year, and what I’m no longer willing to carry with me.

2026 INS: What I’m Choosing More of

  1. Fewer goals, bigger wins: I’m done spreading myself thin for the sake of feeling productive. This year is about focus. Fewer goals that actually matter. Wins that feel aligned, not rushed.

  2. Lift heavy: Not for aesthetics. Not for punishment. But because strength grounds me. It reminds me of what my body can do, not what it needs to look like.

  3. Daily self-care and mindfulness: Not the “perfect routine” kind. The realistic kind. Five minutes still counts. Presence still counts.

  4. Prayer & reflection: Space to slow down. To listen instead of constantly asking. To reconnect with something bigger than my to-do list.

  5. Long walks, daily: Movement without pressure. Thoughts without interruption. A reset I don’t need to earn.

  6. Create > consume: More making. Less scrolling. More trusting of my own voice instead of borrowing everyone else’s.

  7. Take micro risks: Not giant leaps—small, brave choices. Saying yes when it feels exciting. Saying no when it doesn’t.

  8. Water your own grass: Because comparison has never grown anything beautiful in my life.

  9. Unplugged time with my kids: Phones down. Attention up. Being there instead of just nearby.

  10. Meaningful connections & friendships: Depth over proximity. Quality over quantity. Relationships that feel safe, supportive, and honest.

2026 OUTS: What I’m Leaving Behind

Fewer goals, bigger wins: I’m done spreading myself thin for the sake of feeling productive. This year is about focus. Fewer goals that actually matter. Wins that feel aligned, not rushed.

  1. Speaking before listening: I want to understand, not just respond.

  2. Comparing timelines: Mine is unfolding exactly how it’s meant to.

  3. The “do it all” pressure: I don’t need to carry everything to prove anything.

  4. Weak boundaries: Protecting my energy is not selfish - it’s necessary.

  5. Overwhelm from chaos: Not everything deserves my attention.

  6. Mindless scrolling: If it drains me, it doesn’t get my time.

  7. Negative self-talk: I’m done being my own harshest critic.

  8. Rushing with my kids: They don’t need a fast version of me. They need a present one.

  9. Overcommitting: A full calendar doesn’t equal a full life.

  10. Toxic energy: Peace is the priority.

—-

If you’re stepping into 2026 feeling behind, overwhelmed, or unsure - this is your reminder: you don’t need to overhaul your life. You just need to decide what you’re no longer available for.

What are your ins and outs for this year?

—Trisha xo

Next
Next

2025 Holiday Gift Guide: Thoughtful Gifts for Every Season of Life